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Anxious and Avoidant Attachment Isn’t Just About Fear of Intimacy—It’s About the Need to Feel in Control of Love
Lindsay Tran 2/5/25 Lindsay Tran 2/5/25

Anxious and Avoidant Attachment Isn’t Just About Fear of Intimacy—It’s About the Need to Feel in Control of Love

Anxious and avoidant attachment isn’t just about fear of intimacy—it’s about trying to control emotional vulnerability. Learn how to break free from these patterns and move toward secure love.

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Are We Sabotaging Our Relationship, or Are We Pushing Them Away for a Reason?
Lindsay Tran 2/1/25 Lindsay Tran 2/1/25

Are We Sabotaging Our Relationship, or Are We Pushing Them Away for a Reason?

Confused about whether you’re sabotaging your relationship or pushing them away for a reason? Learn how to tell the difference between fear and intuition.

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How to Deal with the Pain of Going No Contact with an Ex
Lindsay Tran 1/30/25 Lindsay Tran 1/30/25

How to Deal with the Pain of Going No Contact with an Ex

Struggling with the pain of going no contact with an ex? Learn how to process your emotions, build a support system, and release old patterns to heal and move forward.

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Why Do We Feel Such Deep Love for Someone Who Isn’t Good for Us?
Lindsay Tran 1/28/25 Lindsay Tran 1/28/25

Why Do We Feel Such Deep Love for Someone Who Isn’t Good for Us?

Wondering why you feel such deep love for someone who isn’t good for you? Learn how subconscious patterns, energetic ties, and inner child wounds contribute—and how to heal and move forward.

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Why We’re Scared to Push People Away When We’re Dating
Lindsay Tran 1/25/25 Lindsay Tran 1/25/25

Why We’re Scared to Push People Away When We’re Dating

Afraid of pushing people away when dating? Learn why this fear shows up, how it holds you back from real love, and how to release it to create authentic relationships.

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7 Things I Learned in My Healthy Relationship After Toxic Ones
Lindsay Tran 1/23/25 Lindsay Tran 1/23/25

7 Things I Learned in My Healthy Relationship After Toxic Ones

Discover the 7 powerful lessons learned in a healthy relationship after toxic ones.

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The Conscious Way to Deal With “The Ick”
Lindsay Tran 1/21/25 Lindsay Tran 1/21/25

The Conscious Way to Deal With “The Ick”

Feeling “the ick” in relationships? Learn how to reflect on this reaction consciously, determine its root cause, and move toward clarity and healthy love.

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The Energetic Reasons We’re Attracted to Emotionally Unavailable Partners (From an Energy Healer)
Lindsay Tran 1/19/25 Lindsay Tran 1/19/25

The Energetic Reasons We’re Attracted to Emotionally Unavailable Partners (From an Energy Healer)

Why are we attracted to emotionally unavailable partners? Discover the energetic patterns behind this dynamic and how to release them to find real, healthy love.

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If We Want Real Love, Casual Physical Intimacy Can Work Against Us
Lindsay Tran 1/17/25 Lindsay Tran 1/17/25

If We Want Real Love, Casual Physical Intimacy Can Work Against Us

Wondering if casual physical intimacy affects finding love? Discover why slowing down physical intimacy can help you build a meaningful, committed relationship.

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Do We Have to Be Completely Over Our Ex to Start Dating If We Want Real Love?
Lindsay Tran 1/15/25 Lindsay Tran 1/15/25

Do We Have to Be Completely Over Our Ex to Start Dating If We Want Real Love?

Do you need to be completely over your ex to date again? Discover how to know when you’re ready for new love, even if you’re still healing.

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When an Ex Moves On, It Doesn’t Mean They Didn’t Love You
Lindsay Tran 1/13/25 Lindsay Tran 1/13/25

When an Ex Moves On, It Doesn’t Mean They Didn’t Love You

Does your ex moving on mean they didn’t love you? Discover the truth about moving on, unresolved pain, and how to release the past to open up to new love.

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What to Do If You’re Over Hearing About Attachment Styles but Still Want Real Love
Lindsay Tran 1/10/25 Lindsay Tran 1/10/25

What to Do If You’re Over Hearing About Attachment Styles but Still Want Real Love

Over hearing about attachment theory but still want real love? Learn how to focus on self-awareness, compatibility, and healthy communication to create meaningful relationships.

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Mixed Signals Means They’re Not Ready for Healthy Love
Lindsay Tran 1/9/25 Lindsay Tran 1/9/25

Mixed Signals Means They’re Not Ready for Healthy Love

Tired of mixed signals in relationships? Learn why they signal emotional unavailability, how to recognize the patterns, and how to create space for healthy love.

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Why We Keep Going Back to Manipulative Partners Even When We Know Better 
Lindsay Tran 1/8/25 Lindsay Tran 1/8/25

Why We Keep Going Back to Manipulative Partners Even When We Know Better 

Why do we keep going back to manipulative partners? Discover the hidden dynamics, the role of fantasy, and how to break free to create space for healthy love.

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Why Avoidant Daters Push Away What They Want the Most
Lindsay Tran 1/5/25 Lindsay Tran 1/5/25

Why Avoidant Daters Push Away What They Want the Most

Discover why avoidant daters push away the love they desire most. Learn the subconscious fears driving avoidant attachment.

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The Hidden Avoidance at the Root of Anxious Attachment
Lindsay Tran 1/3/25 Lindsay Tran 1/3/25

The Hidden Avoidance at the Root of Anxious Attachment

Discover the hidden avoidance at the root of anxious attachment. Learn why we’re drawn to avoidant partners and create space for healthy love.

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Why We’re Attracted to People Who Don’t Want Us
Lindsay Tran 12/24/24 Lindsay Tran 12/24/24

Why We’re Attracted to People Who Don’t Want Us

Why are we attracted to people who don’t want us? Discover the subconscious patterns behind unrequited love and how to break free to create healthy, fulfilling relationships

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How To Tell If We’re Self-Abandoning in Relationships
Lindsay Tran 12/21/24 Lindsay Tran 12/21/24

How To Tell If We’re Self-Abandoning in Relationships

Are you self-abandoning in your relationship? Learn the signs, how to reconnect with yourself, and how to stop prioritizing others at the expense of your needs and self-worth.

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How Much Time Should We Give Someone Who Isn’t Ready for a Relationship?
Lindsay Tran 12/19/24 Lindsay Tran 12/19/24

How Much Time Should We Give Someone Who Isn’t Ready for a Relationship?

How much time should you give someone who isn’t ready for a relationship? Learn why waiting often backfires and how to let go with grace to create space for the love you deserve.

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Are We Overthinking Our Relationship or Is There Really Something Wrong?
Lindsay Tran 12/16/24 Lindsay Tran 12/16/24

Are We Overthinking Our Relationship or Is There Really Something Wrong?

Wondering if you’re overthinking in your relationship or if something’s really wrong? Learn how to differentiate anxiety from intuition and manage overthinking for greater clarity and peace.

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I used to think my fear of abandonment came from the people who left.

The breakups, the ghosting, and the moments I was left alone.

But the truth was harder to see…

My deepest abandonment wound came from the people *I* never left.

I stayed
Real healing isn’t just about saying no.

It’s about feeling safe enough to let that no stand.

Even when your nervous system is freaking out.

Next week inside Alchemy Week: Breaking Free from People-Pleasing,

we’ll be clearing th
You’re not too much.
You’re not a burden.

You’re a whole human being with needs that matter.

And you don’t have to go the rest of your life pretending you’re fine when you’re not.

Next week in Alchemy Week: Brea
Real safety doesn’t come from making everyone happy.

It comes from being true to yourself and knowing you won’t leave you behind anymore.

Healing people-pleasing isn’t about becoming “selfish.”

It’s about rememb
It’s okay to miss the dream and the version of them you only ever saw in glimpses.

That doesn’t mean you were wrong, it just means they weren’t yours to keep.

Because I know you’re someone who loves deeply.

Who sees the sou
Sometimes the most spiritual decision
is to leave what once felt sacred.

Because real healing doesn’t happen
by holding on to the past.

It happens when we reclaim the part of us
that got entangled in it.

This week in Alchemy Week: Leaving Ex

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