Is it worth waiting for a great connection?

You’ve met someone amazing. The connection is deep, the chemistry is electric, and you can’t remember the last time you had so much fun with someone. But there’s one problem—they’re not ready for a relationship.

Despite knowing this, you find yourself holding on because you’ve never felt this way before. Thoughts like, “What if I never find a connection like this again?” or “Time is running out,” start creeping in.

If you’ve ever been in this situation, you’re not alone. The pull of a strong connection can make it hard to let go, even when the signs are telling you to.

So, should you wait for them to come around, or is it better to walk away?

The Hard Truth About Waiting

Here’s the truth: If you want real love, waiting for someone to be ready isn’t the path to get there.

You’re always free to wait for someone, but it comes with a massive risk—and often, it backfires.

When Waiting Backfires

Imagine this scenario:

You decide to casually date someone who says they aren’t ready for a relationship, hoping that when they finally are, you’ll be the person they choose.

But what happens if they decide they’re ready for a relationship—and it’s not with you?

That sinking feeling in your chest? It’s a painful reality that happens more often than we like to admit.

Here’s why:

Waiting keeps you emotionally invested in someone who may never be on the same page.
It prevents you from opening yourself up to people who are already ready for the kind of relationship you want.

What to Do Instead of Waiting

Letting go of someone who isn’t ready for a relationship is one of the hardest but most powerful acts of self-love.

Here’s why it’s the better choice:

You Deserve a Partner Who’s All-In: Love isn’t about convincing someone to be ready—it’s about meeting someone who’s already there.
It’s Not Your Job to Wait or Fix Them: Their journey is theirs to figure out, and it’s not your responsibility to put your life on hold while they do.
Letting Go Creates Space for Real Love: By releasing someone who isn’t ready, you’re making room for someone who is ready to show up fully for you.

How to Let Go and Move Forward

Letting go isn’t easy, especially when the connection feels strong. Here’s how to navigate this process with grace and self-compassion:

1️⃣ Accept Where They Are
Acknowledge their unavailability without taking it as a reflection of your worth. Their readiness (or lack thereof) is about them, not you.

2️⃣ Allow Yourself to Grieve
Letting go of potential is still a loss, and it’s okay to feel sadness, anger, or disappointment. Process these emotions instead of suppressing them.

3️⃣ Reframe It as a Step Toward Alignment
This isn’t a failure—it’s a step closer to the love you truly deserve. Every experience teaches you more about what you need and value in a partner.

4️⃣ Focus on Yourself
Redirect the energy you were investing in waiting into nurturing yourself—your hobbies, passions, and relationships with friends and family.

A Gentle Reminder

It’s not your job to wait for someone to change or become ready. Love is about mutual effort and alignment, and you deserve someone who is ready to meet you where you are.

By letting go, you’re not giving up—you’re choosing yourself, your worth, and the love you truly desire.

Struggling to Let Go?

If you’re finding it hard to release attachments to someone who isn’t ready for a relationship, I can help. My 1:1 energy healing sessions are designed to help you: