What Self-Love Really Means (And Why It’s Not What You Think)
Most people think self-love means positive affirmations and self-care. But the deepest form of self-love begins with acceptance—especially of the parts of you that feel unworthy.
Why Your Heartbreak Still Hurts
A tender story about how breaking my finger taught me the truth about heartbreak and why emotional wounds deserve the same care as physical ones.
My Experience Dating a Spiritual Narcissist and How You Can Avoid One
A deeply personal story of surviving narcissistic abuse disguised as spiritual mentorship. Learn the hidden signs of manipulation and control and how to trust yourself again.
Why the Idea of a Twin Flame Is So Alluring—And So Often Unhealthy
Explore how twin flame connections can become trauma traps, why spiritualized obsession feels so real, and how to release unhealthy attachments while honoring your healing and sovereignty.
Why You Can’t Stop Checking Their Social Media
Still checking your ex’s social media? Discover why the pull is more than habit—it’s unprocessed energy.
When “Not Noticing” Becomes a Survival Pattern
When emotional suppression becomes survival, “not noticing” can feel like love.
How to Let Go of Someone We Deeply Care About—Who Treats Us Badly
Struggling to let go of someone you love who treats you badly? Learn how to release attachment, reclaim your energy, and make space for real, mutual love.
Why Instant Attraction Can Mean They’re the Wrong Person
Discover why intense chemistry can be a sign of unresolved trauma, not true love.
Breakups Aren’t Just Grief. They’re Nervous System Withdrawals.
Still aching after a breakup that felt more like addiction than love? Learn why emotional withdrawal happens.
Are You Addicted to Feeling “In Love”—Or Are You Actually Being Loved?
Discover how the craving for emotional highs in love may stem from unresolved patterns.
Why I Didn’t Feel a Spark When I Met My Partner (and Why That Was a Good Thing)
Learn how mistaking intensity for love kept one woman stuck in toxic patterns—and how releasing addictive energy patterns opened the door to real, grounded connection.
When Emotional Availability Becomes a Trauma Pattern
Learn why always being the "emotionally available one" in love might be a trauma response.
Why Getting the Emotionally Available Partner You Asked For Can Feel Terrifying
Wanting an emotionally available partner but feeling scared when they show up? Learn why true connection can feel overwhelming and how to heal your nervous system to feel safe with the love you deserve.
Are You Settling—Or Just Feeling Safe for the First Time?
Wondering if you're settling or finally feeling safe in a relationship? This post unpacks the hidden trauma responses that make calm love feel unfamiliar—and how to tell the difference with deep self-awareness.
What If Your Fear of “Settling” Isn’t Really About Settling at All?
Think you're afraid of settling in love? You might actually be afraid of feeling safe. Explore how trauma and attachment wounds can confuse peace for boredom—and how healing can open you to love that lasts.
What If Your Avoidant Ex Doesn’t Come Back?(Even Though the Internet Keeps Telling You They Do)
What if your avoidant ex never comes back? Learn why their absence isn’t proof of your unworthiness.
Are You Scared You’ll Have to Choose Between Chemistry and Safety?
Wondering if safe love will ever feel like real love? Learn why healing your trauma responses is the key to experiencing chemistry and safety in relationships.
Why We’re Afraid to Ask for What We Need in Love
Do you silence your needs in relationships out of fear of losing love? Learn why this happens, how it’s rooted in early conditioning.
Why Some Short Relationships Leave a Long-Lasting Mark on Us
Some of the deepest emotional imprints come from the shortest relationships. Learn why brief connections can leave lasting energetic marks.
Every Woman Is Reposting Benny Blanco Right Now. Here’s Why.
Women are drawn to emotionally present men—and many men are realizing they weren’t taught how to show up that way.