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Why the Idea of a Twin Flame Is So Alluring—And So Often Unhealthy
Lindsay Tran 5/13/25 Lindsay Tran 5/13/25

Why the Idea of a Twin Flame Is So Alluring—And So Often Unhealthy

Explore how twin flame connections can become trauma traps, why spiritualized obsession feels so real, and how to release unhealthy attachments while honoring your healing and sovereignty.

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Why You Can’t Stop Checking Their Social Media
Lindsay Tran 5/8/25 Lindsay Tran 5/8/25

Why You Can’t Stop Checking Their Social Media

Still checking your ex’s social media? Discover why the pull is more than habit—it’s unprocessed energy.

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When “Not Noticing” Becomes a Survival Pattern
Lindsay Tran 5/5/25 Lindsay Tran 5/5/25

When “Not Noticing” Becomes a Survival Pattern

When emotional suppression becomes survival, “not noticing” can feel like love.

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How to Let Go of Someone We Deeply Care About—Who Treats Us Badly
Lindsay Tran 5/2/25 Lindsay Tran 5/2/25

How to Let Go of Someone We Deeply Care About—Who Treats Us Badly

Struggling to let go of someone you love who treats you badly? Learn how to release attachment, reclaim your energy, and make space for real, mutual love.

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Why Instant Attraction Can Mean They’re the Wrong Person
Lindsay Tran 4/29/25 Lindsay Tran 4/29/25

Why Instant Attraction Can Mean They’re the Wrong Person

Discover why intense chemistry can be a sign of unresolved trauma, not true love.

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Breakups Aren’t Just Grief. They’re Nervous System Withdrawals.
Lindsay Tran 4/27/25 Lindsay Tran 4/27/25

Breakups Aren’t Just Grief. They’re Nervous System Withdrawals.

Still aching after a breakup that felt more like addiction than love? Learn why emotional withdrawal happens.

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Are You Addicted to Feeling “In Love”—Or Are You Actually Being Loved?
Lindsay Tran 4/24/25 Lindsay Tran 4/24/25

Are You Addicted to Feeling “In Love”—Or Are You Actually Being Loved?

Discover how the craving for emotional highs in love may stem from unresolved patterns.

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Why I Didn’t Feel a Spark When I Met My Partner (and Why That Was a Good Thing)
Lindsay Tran 4/19/25 Lindsay Tran 4/19/25

Why I Didn’t Feel a Spark When I Met My Partner (and Why That Was a Good Thing)

Learn how mistaking intensity for love kept one woman stuck in toxic patterns—and how releasing addictive energy patterns opened the door to real, grounded connection.

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When Emotional Availability Becomes a Trauma Pattern
Lindsay Tran 4/15/25 Lindsay Tran 4/15/25

When Emotional Availability Becomes a Trauma Pattern

Learn why always being the "emotionally available one" in love might be a trauma response.

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Why Getting the Emotionally Available Partner You Asked For Can Feel Terrifying
Lindsay Tran 4/13/25 Lindsay Tran 4/13/25

Why Getting the Emotionally Available Partner You Asked For Can Feel Terrifying

Wanting an emotionally available partner but feeling scared when they show up? Learn why true connection can feel overwhelming and how to heal your nervous system to feel safe with the love you deserve.

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Are You Settling—Or Just Feeling Safe for the First Time?
Lindsay Tran 4/10/25 Lindsay Tran 4/10/25

Are You Settling—Or Just Feeling Safe for the First Time?

Wondering if you're settling or finally feeling safe in a relationship? This post unpacks the hidden trauma responses that make calm love feel unfamiliar—and how to tell the difference with deep self-awareness.

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What If Your Fear of “Settling” Isn’t Really About Settling at All?
Lindsay Tran 4/8/25 Lindsay Tran 4/8/25

What If Your Fear of “Settling” Isn’t Really About Settling at All?

Think you're afraid of settling in love? You might actually be afraid of feeling safe. Explore how trauma and attachment wounds can confuse peace for boredom—and how healing can open you to love that lasts.

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What If Your Avoidant Ex Doesn’t Come Back?(Even Though the Internet Keeps Telling You They Do)
Lindsay Tran 4/6/25 Lindsay Tran 4/6/25

What If Your Avoidant Ex Doesn’t Come Back?(Even Though the Internet Keeps Telling You They Do)

What if your avoidant ex never comes back? Learn why their absence isn’t proof of your unworthiness.

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Are You Scared You’ll Have to Choose Between Chemistry and Safety?
Lindsay Tran 4/4/25 Lindsay Tran 4/4/25

Are You Scared You’ll Have to Choose Between Chemistry and Safety?

Wondering if safe love will ever feel like real love? Learn why healing your trauma responses is the key to experiencing chemistry and safety in relationships.

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Why We’re Afraid to Ask for What We Need in Love
Lindsay Tran 4/1/25 Lindsay Tran 4/1/25

Why We’re Afraid to Ask for What We Need in Love

Do you silence your needs in relationships out of fear of losing love? Learn why this happens, how it’s rooted in early conditioning.

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Why Some Short Relationships Leave a Long-Lasting Mark on Us
Lindsay Tran 3/30/25 Lindsay Tran 3/30/25

Why Some Short Relationships Leave a Long-Lasting Mark on Us

Some of the deepest emotional imprints come from the shortest relationships. Learn why brief connections can leave lasting energetic marks.

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Every Woman Is Reposting Benny Blanco Right Now. Here’s Why.
Lindsay Tran 3/27/25 Lindsay Tran 3/27/25

Every Woman Is Reposting Benny Blanco Right Now. Here’s Why.

Women are drawn to emotionally present men—and many men are realizing they weren’t taught how to show up that way.

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What It Feels Like to Love Someone Who Can’t Love You Back
Lindsay Tran 3/25/25 Lindsay Tran 3/25/25

What It Feels Like to Love Someone Who Can’t Love You Back

Loving someone who can’t love you back can feel like losing yourself. Learn how to let go, reclaim your energy, and heal from unreciprocated love with deep energy healing support.

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How We Get Energetically Tied to Someone Who Hurt Us
Lindsay Tran 3/22/25 Lindsay Tran 3/22/25

How We Get Energetically Tied to Someone Who Hurt Us

Struggling to let go of someone who hurt you? It may not just be emotional—it could be energetic entanglement keeping you tied to them.

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The Energetic Roots of Relationship Anxiety
Lindsay Tran 3/18/25 Lindsay Tran 3/18/25

The Energetic Roots of Relationship Anxiety

Relationship anxiety isn’t just overthinking—it’s often energetic imprints from past heartbreaks, ancestral wounds, and subconscious fears.

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“But I want to FEEL in love” you may be thinking 

🌿I get it. I used to say the same thing.

In the past, I thought love meant intensity

⚡️I followed the spark, the feeling of being emotionally hooked.

But the truth is…

➡ Inten
It’s time to get honest 

🎨Wishful thinking paints a pretty picture of what the future with our ex could be…

But it’s time to bring our attention away from the fantasy and take an honest look at our ex and the relationship.

🔹Fo
How we heal this ⬇️

Healing starts when we  stop calling this capacity love, and start calling it what it really is:

✨ An old pattern asking to be released.

Because real love isn’t something we carry alone.

🩷 It’s mutual presence.

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What changed everything for me...

🔹When I started releasing these energies from my field…

Something subtle but life-altering happened:

✨ I started to feel love not just in my head, but in my body.

✨ I stopped chasing intensity and started
Questions to ask yourself ⬇️

Do I genuinely like who they are or am I staying because they like me?

⭐ You’re allowed to want more than being chosen. 

You’re allowed to choose back.

 🌿 Does the relationship feel emotionally safe but a

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