What if there was a way to love yourself and break free from obsessive thoughts about an ex after a bad relationship?

And what if you could do it in weeks instead of months or years of therapy?

How good would it feel if…

You could spend your time creating your dream life and enjoying time with friends and family because your head is clear of thoughts of your ex.
You started to love yourself for real and got your confidence back (or for the very first time).
When someone casually mentions your ex you felt peace and freedom instead of dread, pain or anxiety.
Your breakup actually helped you level-up rather than set you back.

This is entirely possible for you.

I’m ready for this

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Messages to Lindsay O'Brien about feeling great after taking her program The Ex Detox

Can you relate to this?

You’ve tried everything- therapy, talking to your friends, reading self-help books, watching YouTube videos, distracting yourself and it still feels like your breakup was yesterday instead of weeks or months ago.

You feel like you’re walking around with a weighted blanket over you. The grief and heartache are making it hard to function and you miss your old self that had a lot more zest for life.

The urge to reach back out to your ex is incredibly hard to resist. It takes all your inner strength not to give in (but sometimes you do which feels better for a moment but then much worse after).

Even if you wanted to start dating again, you don’t think you’d be successful because your self-love is at an all-time low. Everything your ex said about you and how they treated you feels impossible to forget. You wonder if anyone will love you again.

Yes, I do

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“I feel so much lighter and the future looks so much brighter.”

“Working with you has been one of the greatest decisions I could have ever made for myself. I am becoming a whole new person and able to release things I never thought were possible to move on from. I feel so much lighter and the future looks so much brighter.”

-AN EX DETOX GRADUATE

So here’s the truth…

Recovering from a bad relationship isn’t like an ordinary breakup.

There’s a reason why it’s so hard to move on and let go of your ex.

The damage the relationship does to your self-worth, confidence and especially your self-love makes this type of breakup much more difficult to overcome than a breakup of a healthy (ish) relationship.

After spending months or years in a toxic relationship, you’re often carrying around tons of subconscious emotional baggage (what fuels trauma bonds) and negative beliefs about yourself that hold you back from letting go of your ex and truly loving yourself.

Energies like abandonment, grief, guilt and fear held in the subconscious keep you emotionally connected to your ex and thinking about them obsessively.

Negative beliefs like, “I’m not good enough” and “no one ever loves me” hold you back from healing and experiencing the deep self-love that’s at the core of who you are.

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Thankfully, it doesn’t have to be like this forever.

Introducing The Ex Detox

A program to help you start moving on from an ex and learn how to love yourself from the inside out.

If you’ve been looking for the missing piece in your healing journey that will finally break you out of feeling stuck, this is it.

The Ex Detox will help you release the subconscious blocks that are fueling the obsessive thoughts of an ex and boost your self-love so you can start moving on from a bad relationship.

Let's do this

Lindsay O'Brien | The Real Love Alchemist

Before I share how it works, let me introduce myself.

My name is Lindsay and after experiencing toxic relationships and being hung up on exes for months (and even years) I finally figured out how to move on from those relationships and in the process, truly love myself.

I spent years (and lots of money) trying to figure out why these relationships were so hard to move on from during my own healing process.

During that time, I found potent healing modalities that made it much easier to let go of my exes and boost my self-love.

My passion is getting to subconscious source of what’s holding you back from moving on from a bad relationship and supporting you in finding the self-love you desire.

So what do I get with The Ex Detox?

3 Individual Energy Healing Sessions

Three personalized energy healing sessions will allow us to release the exact subconscious energies making it hard to love yourself and move on from an ex. These sessions take place over video calls.
$525 value
A Guided Meditation to Release Blocks to Self-Love

A powerful guided meditation to help you release any subconscious blocks that are holding you back from loving yourself. You get lifetime access to this meditation.
$200 value
A Power Guided Meditation for Maximum Self-Love

A power guided meditation for maximum self-love to cement the subconscious shifts you experienced from the guided meditation for releasing blocks to self-love. You also get lifetime access to this meditation.
$100 value